The vacuum hose running from the intake to the tranny is for the modulator valve (the round external valve at the back of the transmission). The kickdown is actuated by a rod that connects to the kickdown lever on the tranny and the kickdown linkage on the carb. The carb linkage is located right behind the throttle linkage. It sounds like the kickdown rod itself is missing from the swap, you'll need to pick one up & connect it before you'll get a 3-2 kickdown.
Might be a stupid question but hows your fluid level ? If the fluid level is good then you're probably looking at a rebuild because it sounds like it's slipping on the 2-3 shift. Make sure the modulator valve is good and that it's connected to a good vacuum supply. I don't know if C4 bands can be tightened to firm up a slipping shift. I'd make sure everything is setup the way it should be (kickdown rod, vacuum, modulator, fluid level, etc) and see what it does. If it still slips between gears I'd suggest have a tranny shop look at it.